You do this through a drop-down option on the "Accept" button. Sending a message in this way does not count as accepting the request. This option can be useful if you are not sure if you recognize the person. When dealing with an invitation you have a third button that you can press marked "Report Spam. You should use this option if you believe the person is not using LinkedIn for legitimate networking purposes. A professional writer since with a Bachelor of Arts in journalism, John Lister ran the press department for the Plain English Campaign until He then worked as a freelance writer with credits including national newspapers, magazines and online work.
He specializes in technology and communications. How to Ping a BlackBerry. Hyde on steroids, chances are there are things about them worth admiring. Take a minute to decide what those things are and keep them top of mind. One way to do this is to create a sincere one-sentence response to the question, "What do you admire most about your manager? You'll find that telling others what you like about them makes you believe it more. As a bonus, if your manager hears that you've been spreading praise about them, it can't hurt your relationship!
If you say you'll be at work at am, do it. If you promise a deliverable by a deadline, keep that deadline. Don't lie or exaggerate, even if it will save you a headache. If you make a mistake or miss a deadline, acknowledge it before they do.
Lastly, keep what they tell you in confidence private. If you've been inconsistent in the past where your word is concerned, admit it. Share what you're working on to make it better. By being transparent about your intentions, and then keeping those intentions, you prove you're worth trusting. Seasoned bosses respect people who tell them the truth—even when the truth is "no.
Sometimes these boundaries need to be stretched in particularly busy seasons, but that doesn't mean they aren't worth setting. By setting boundaries before they're needed, you ensure that you won't become bitter or resentful about work patterns you've inadvertently agreed to working late, weekends, checking your email on vacation, etc. Similarly, by negotiating project context and deadlines on the front end, you prove that you take delivering on deadlines seriously.
It's much better to under-promise and delight your boss by over-delivering than to verbally assent to something you know won't happen. Chances are there are a handful of projects your boss cares about the most.
Ensure that these projects are front and center on your to-do list. When you hit a major milestone with these projects, keep your boss in the loop. When you burn the midnight oil, ensure they know that you're prioritizing this task because it's important AND because it's important to them. Share some of the praise for the project's successes by heralding them as a champion of the project.
Arm them with stats, sound bites, and other information to share with their boss and peers about what you've accomplished together. When your boss pulls you aside with some corrective feedback, show them you prize their feedback by:.
Trust is the most frail component of your relationship with your manager; breaking it can be fatal to your relationship. Don't say anything about them publicly, or even behind closed doors, that you wouldn't say to their face.
Don't give feedback about them to their manager, if you haven't voiced it to them first. Work as hard when they're home sick as you would if they were with you in the office. Don't conspire against them, period—even if they deserve it. By keeping your loyalty to your manager, you mark yourself as a person who can be trusted and with high ethical standards. This makes you extremely rare and worth keeping around.
Repairing a broken relationship with your manager takes work, but yields dividends in your immediate job and later in your career. By taking the time to build trust and demonstrate your loyalty and competence, you not only save your job—you win a friend and mentor for life.
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I've been doing this for 20 years, and I'm now going to teach you my signature technique, the tool that I have taught thousands of people to use to have one of the biggest aha moments of their life.
The best strategy to find career purpose starts with something called the interview bucket list. What you're going to do to build your interview bucket list is find 10 companies where you feel attracted to what they do, the products and services they provide, the customers, their value, their mission statement—whatever it is about them, you feel a positive emotional connection to that.
And you need to be able to articulate that connection. You need to be able to say, "I'm putting this company on my list because this is how they make me feel. When I think about this company, I feel this positive energy. Why do you need to create an interview bucket list to find career purpose? The answer lies with intrinsic motivation. When you're born, you don't have intrinsic motivation. Intrinsic motivation is developed over the years as you have life experiences where you literally teach yourself what you like and don't like, what you're attracted to, and what you want to repel from.
And we're all different. Our intrinsic motivation is completely unique to us because no two people have had the same sets of experiences or interpreted them in the same way. So, that intrinsic motivation is the key to unlocking a career path that you would feel connected to, one with purpose, and it's going to be different for every person.
Now, you take these 10 companies, you look at why you're attracted to them, and I guarantee you're going to see patterns, maybe even several patterns. I've yet to find somebody who doesn't have patterns, and these patterns are going to be around your values, your beliefs, your hobbies, and your interests. Maybe you notice the companies you chose for your interview bucket list all involve working with kids, cooking, or a hobby of yours like fishing. Or maybe these companies are luxury brands, environmentally conscious, politically savvy, or zero waste.
There are a million directions this can go in, and there's no right or wrong answer. You are who you are. If you want to feel joy and connection to your work, if you want to finally find career purpose, you need to tap into your intrinsic motivation—and these patterns will reveal that. Once you've created your interview bucket list and found patterns that reveal your intrinsic motivation, you can and should! You'll find out how you like to create value, which is what companies pay you for.
You create value, whether you realize it or not. You do something that saves or makes companies. So, after figuring what kinds of companies you should target in your job search based on your intrinsic motivation and the patterns you've identified, find companies in your local area, look at what types of positions they offer, and see if any would play to your professional strengths. For the first time in your life, you are going to have purpose with your work.
It is an amazing technique, and I promise you it works. If you're serious about finding career purpose and finally landing a job with meaning, sign up for a Work It Daily membership today!
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On Friday, once the work of the week is complete, take some time to prepare for Monday. Perhaps there is some time to get a jump on next week's work. Make a list of things that need to get done next week so you can go into the weekend with peace of mind and avoid any potential Monday morning surprises.
Good time management throughout the week can help equal out the daily workload. For employers, you may want to consider easing up on the Monday morning meetings. Meetings are important to make sure everyone within the company is on the same page and working toward the same goals. However, there's no rule saying that they have to be held Monday morning. The meeting could be held on Monday afternoon or any other day of the week instead.
In addition, good communication with the workforce throughout the week goes a long ways to making sure that any meetings that are held go by efficiently and don't drag on. Weekends are a time to catch up on things and have a little fun. As a result, rest and relaxation can sometimes fall by the wayside. In an ideal scenario, most of the weekend's activities would be concluded by late Sunday afternoon, allowing you an opportunity to wind down, relax, and get a good night's sleep.
Going into any workday with low energy will have a negative impact, but more so on Monday because it could potentially set a negative tone for the rest of the week. Go into Monday with as much energy as possible and set a productive tone for the rest of the week, and then maintain a healthy work-life balance for the rest of the week. Many professionals have been programmed to dread Mondays.
But, what if that's more mental than reality? Ask yourself, is my Monday any worse than any other day? In most cases, it probably isn't. And even if it is, how you decide to approach the day could determine how the rest of the day goes. Many unpleasant things in life can be improved with a positive attitude. Look at Monday as a brand new start, a clean slate. You're about to meet a new workweek and Monday is a first impression.
It also helps to give yourself something to look forward to each Monday. It could be going out to lunch, happy hour after work with co-workers and friends, or maybe a special family dinner out each Monday. It could even be something as simple as a workout at the gym or a movie or game night. Whatever it is, having something fun to look forward to each Monday makes the day seem more manageable and adds positivity to it. Continuing to approach Monday with dread and negativity will only make things worse, so turn it into a positive experience.
Losing your job is hard—hard on your bank account and self-esteem. It is probably one of the most professionally traumatic experiences you'll ever have. However, as hard as losing a job can seem at the time, it can lead to something positive as it gives you a fresh start. You don't need to go on an exotic vacation. Even taking a break for just a few days will help you process what's happened. Don't make any big decisions in those first few days and don't rush into the job market the day after you've received the news.
You need time to process what happened. To keep your anxiety and stress in check, figure out how long you have to look for a job—and give yourself as much time as possible to do so. Look at what you spend money on and how you can cut back. But, minutes after I accept the connection request, I get the follow up sales pitch.
Now let me tell you all about me. Remove connection. More sophisticated than the sneaky self-promoter, the mass scheduler has a call to action. This person uses the same spray-and-pray connection tactic, but hits every accepted connection with an automatic message to the effect of, "Hi, I know we're strangers, but click this link to schedule a call with me!
But, the only circumstance in which a completely cold connection will immediately schedule a call with you is pure loneliness. The casual caller also wants to get on the phone. But, they don't have a calendar link, and they don't have a purpose for speaking to you. Instead, they simply ask, "Do you have 10 minutes to get on a call and learn more about each other? The downside of writing about my remote teams around the world is that I get solicited nonstop by web development, design, and SEO firms from every corner of the globe.
But, in talking with other business owners, it seems that everyone is getting hit up. If you are running one of these agencies, the market is flooded, so it's time to find a better way to connect. A few weeks ago someone sent me a simple message, "Can you tell me more about Trainual? Bait taken, they immediately replied, "That's cool. I do business development for an offshore web development shop that can save you a billion dollars a year.
Do you have 10 minutes for a call? Here's my link. Somehow, 11 seconds after we post a job, I receive a flutter of messages from recruiters that claim to have hundreds of capable candidates at the ready.
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